I think this is one of those things in life where if you are not the one concerned with this issue, who ever dating you better be aware of your lack of financial interest. Relationships are hard work and money is often times an issue as it pertains to so much of your life. By talking about finances you at least get a sense for whether or not you all both value the same things. Perhaps I just believe it is best to error on the side of communication and not feel as though I should be afraid to discuss whatever is bothering me.